We acknowledge the child as the nation's future builder, but it is also true that he is an autonomous existence, a special gift from the almighty. We must learn to be content and move forward, no matter how difficult it may be. We should learn this art if we want to be happy here, and childhood is the ideal age to do it. Unfortunately, most people in our culture live miserable lives, and children unknowingly or knowingly observe their parents doing the same.
Parenting is a great science and this science has been given place in our country from the very beginning, but today we have gone far away from it, parents are the first teachers, children are doing observational learning, so the science of parenting teaches that how we can Give the child what we want to give them and it is in This science that many things we should know before becoming parents. Often a lot of disharmony that comes in marital life comes after having children and most of it Harm to innocent child. There are very common ad absolute science related to child upbringing ad growth if we take care of that our more than 70 percent of the problems (like parent child relationship / behavioral issues /confidence .etc.) will be solved or will overcome. In our different sessions related to parenting we work on that depending o the situation and phase.
According to the government data, our country is among those countries where the divorce rate is the lowest, which is 1.1 percent. The data is also telling that in the last few years the divorce rate is increasing in India and especially in the urban city a hike of 50 to 60 percent has been noticed in the divorce rate.
But my experience as a psychologist says that in our country a very large population is living a dis-satisfied married life where there is a lot of disharmony and bitterness, sometimes in the mind of one of the spouses, sometimes in the mind of both. But somehow manage to continue their relationship, but the atmosphere at home is hellish at times and children have to bear the consequences, which many times we do not see directly, but it causes physical and mental diseases very easily to the family members.
